Family & Relationships

Marriage, friendship, parenting and living at peace with others.

  • Watch out Against Misleading and Being Misled

    “Whatever you do or say, be intentional that you do not mislead anyone … Quit social media if it causes you to be misled. Live without internet and TV if it causes you to be misled. Whatever causes you to be misled is not worth compared to the loss of eternal life and a relationship with God.”

  • Argument Settled On Criteria For Greatness

    “Jesus changed the criteria of identifying a good leader. We choose the most popular person. We choose someone who represents a larger group of people. We choose somebody who is influential and wealthy. We choose a good orator. Jesus says the best leader is humble and serves all. In other words a good leader has a good attitude and is known for the work they do wholeheartedly for all. Humble and a servant for all!”

  • Dedicate Some Time Regularly For These Private Activities 

    “Plants have unseen roots. Buildings have unseen foundations. Those who excel around us have a life that is private where they do all the planning and preparation. Best products come from factory processes that we do not see. Private preparations will make a difference in your life. For an excellent life, private moments are indispensable. Dedicate some time regularly for private activities!”

  • The Key Message Is, Listen to Him!

    “There are so many tiny details that vary yet it’s the same story. The differences do not affect the fact that the Bible is God’s word. God did not dictate the Bible. God’s people experienced God and then in their own way and language and even limited memory they wrote God’s word. The message from God is not distorted even when details do not agree. If a friend sends you a gift, and those who received the gift do not agree on the color of dressing of the messenger, that detail is inconsequential to the key message of the gift. Many conflicting details in the Bible where same story is narrated, are inconsequential to the key message intended for us. In fact the differences confirm that these writers acted independently from each other in delivering God’s word to us, and we remain in awe at how consistently true the key message is!”

  • Your Earlier Conclusions Could Make You Unteachable!

    “Do you have earlier conclusions that have made difficult for you to relate with others? Your relationships at work, in the family…Do you have conclusions you made earlier that prevent you from learning Bible truths? Do you have an earlier made conclusion about the Sabbath…”

  • Eliminate The Noise and The Crowd First

    “Your attitude towards school and success depends on your crowd and its noise. Your attitude towards marriage and your spouse depends on your crowd and its noise. Your attitude towards your single life and potential life partners depends on your crowd and its noise. Your attitude towards finances and economic growth depends on your crowd and its noise. Your attitude towards health and the necessary reforms depends on your crowd and its noise. Your attitude towards spiritual things depends on your crowd and its noise. Jesus will only bless us when the crowd and its noise are gone out of our lives!”

  • A Good Mission But Bad Publicity, What To Do

    “Jesus refused to be distracted by bad negativity. He gave one response and carried on. Do not engage enemies who spread bad publicity. If you must clarify, do it once and move on ignoring them. Engaging them beyond clarification may give credibility to useless idlers who thrive on social media attention. Clarify and totally ignore them.”

  • Why Do You Entertain Evil Thoughts?

    “If you want to be happy in any and every relationship, do not entertain evil thoughts…When you entertain evil thoughts, you will keep seeing evidence around you to justify your evil thoughts. You will never see a situation where the other person is good…”

  • What Is The End Game?

    “Examine yourself today and redefine your end game. The way you are operating in school, what is the end game? The way you make health choices, what is the end game? The way you are relating with your partner and others, what is the end game? The way you spend your money daily, no savings, no investments, no tithes and offerings, what is the end game? Short term achievements are not the end game. End game happens at the very end when much can’t be changed. What is your end game?”