Family & Relationships

Marriage, friendship, parenting and living at peace with others.

  • A Good Logical Argument But Completely Wrong!

    The truth remains to be the truth even if no one supported it. The truth doesn’t have to have a good logical argument. If God who can heal, allows a loved to one die after you have prayed without ceasing, would you still praise Him and worship Him? If you are desperate about something but the more you pray the worse it gets and eventually it fails to work out, would you still love God?

  • Do You Have The Evidence?

    When you go in anger to your child’s school, to defend your child, why not gather some evidence first, before your show of anger becomes your most embarrassing moment? Why not seek clarification about the statement made, the email, the text, etc? Why rush to a conclusion and end up embarrassing yourself? When the truth becomes clear to you, it may be too little too late to apologize albeit profusely. Even if everything is obvious, gather the evidence first. Do you have the evidence?

  • Know Thyself and Know Thy Enemies!

    Men seeking sexual escapades will posture themselves to the target woman as the best suitor ready to marry. They will swear in the name of love. They will behave well until they are let in. What follows next is heartbreak. The enemy comes within and destroys you from within.

  • It Only Counts If You Can’t Count!

    Love..KEEPS NO RECORDS OF WRONGS. Church attendance counts if you can’t count. Tithe and offerings count if you can’t count. Trying and trying again to have a good marriage counts if you can’t count. Acts of kindness count if you can’t count. It only counts if you can’t count. May God help us to know how to conduct ourselves so that what counts doesn’t count, in Jesus’s name, Amen!

  • To Achieve Anything Avoid These…

    Avoiding distractions can easily become a distraction. We should remain focused on the desired goal. We can be so busy avoiding distractions, that avoiding distractions becomes a distraction. You can be so organized until you achieve nothing except organization. You can keep time so well and do nothing after that. You can dress so well and yet you are not ready for the function. To achieve anything avoid distractions!

  • May You Get What You Didn’t Pray For!

    It is easy to think that your life is sustained by the power of your prayer. What a lie! You don’t even pray for everything you need. God in His kindness provides you with much more than you ever ask for. If God totally depended on what we pray for to run our lives, we would be in a crisis. We thank God that our prayers are not the only basis of His operations in our life.

  • How to Manage Debts The Bible Way

    Debt enslaves the mind. Therefore, freedom from an enslaving debt is the best experience one can have. Debt puts you in a financial fix and you are most likely to incur more debt. Therefore, the sooner you are free from debt, the better your mental health. That is why the prophet told her to first clear the debt and then live on the rest!

  • Be Worried if you Think This is Good News

    It is bad news if any relationship breaks, even if it is for a person who left you for another. Be worried if you think that it is good news. It is bad news if anyone loses a job. Be worried if you think it is good news. It is bad news if anyone loses money. Be worried if you think that it is good news. It is bad news if anyone gets publicly embarrassed and ashamed. Be worried if you think that it is good news.

  • Be Careful Bad News Delivery Can Kill

    It is terrible if close-concerned people read the news from your social media page and go into shock. Then you will claim that you didn’t know that they don’t know. You have acted foolishly. Bad news poorly delivered can cause death.