“Sometimes going through requires counseling. Sometimes going through requires seeing a psychiatrist. Sometimes going through requires speaking out about … Ask yourself am I stuck or am I moving on while in this distress? Seeking help is not bothering people. Seeking help is not embarrassing anyone or yourself or family. Seeking help is ensuring you are not stuck in a situation that gets worse…”
“Gossipers hurt people by spinning falsehoods and making fun of painful situations. Gossipers pass around falsehood that eventually reach the victim and hurt them more. Gossipers are part of the problem. If you are in a network of gossip you will know it because…”
“For those considering marriage currently, are your spouses to be belonging to the Lord? Does your male friend belong to the Lord? Does your female friend belong to the Lord? If they don’t belong to the Lord, how will you operate your marriage without God’s blessings?…”
“Did you know you can be a slave to someone you love? You become so afraid of losing the person that…Did you know you can become a slave to people who guarantee your income? You do everything to please your bosses even when…Did you know you can become a slave to human ideas and ideologies? You become so committed to…”
“Whatever it is, don’t abuse this marital advice. Don’t use it to harm others or take positions that are extreme and impose them on others…May your married or unmarried life…”
“Have you stopped listening? You are about to kill that relationship if you haven’t done so already. You stopped listening to your workers? You stopped listening to your students? You stopped listening to your church members? You stopped listening to your spouse? You stopped listening to your friends and relatives? You may blame everyone else but you who stopped listening is the one who killed the relationship!”
“Since jealousy can’t help you succeed. Since jealousy can’t stop God from blessing someone else. Then by all means… Goodwill is not acquired from school. Goodwill cannot be bought. Goodwill that is effective and sustainable…”
“Which people are advising you about your relationship? They may be your friends, but are they in good relationships? Are they secretly envious? Are they in relationships that you will want your relationship to be like?…”
“…Is there something you can avoid and you will have a good working environment? Please do. Is there something you can avoid and live happily in your marriage and family? Please do. Is there something you can avoid and you will enjoy meeting neighbors and family members? Please do!”