Family & Relationships

Marriage, friendship, parenting and living at peace with others.

  • Don’t Take The Promise For Granted!

    As you started your studies, your employment, your business, and even your leadership, you asked for prayers and promises from God were read. The promises were and are true, but don’t take them for granted. Remain faithful and focused or else God can change His mind and refuse to fulfill the promise He made. Don’t take the promise for granted!

  • Who and What Do You Honor More?

    There are times which our response must show total resolve. Half-hearted responses to problems do not solve problems, instead, they enhance problems. Eli’s response was not sufficient. He rebuked his sons but that wasn’t enough, God expected more. He rebuked his sons but he feared them or pampered them and didn’t want to offend them. That wasn’t love, it was foolishness and they died for it.

  • Beware, Reversed Roles Ahead!

    The God of justice is still alive and active. My role and your role can be reversed without notice or recourse. Be faithful and humble so that the reversal of roles that must and will happen, will be in your favor. May the reversal of roles be in my favor in Jesus’ name, Amen!

  • He is Still Nice even to the Dead!

    Nice to the dead? How? Are the dead able to experience how nice we are to them? How can one be nice even to the dead? Is it consistent with other biblical teachings about the dead?

    Are there people you really loved and you were close to and they died? Be kind and nice to their families. Show kindness to the living and the dead. The promises we made during funeral and burial should be kept as a kindness to the living left behind and memory of the dead we once loved. Be nice to the living and the dead!

  • Can Yours Open Doors As This One Did?

    What people say about you may be true or false. How you continue conducting yourself confirms what is going around or refutes it. We may not know what people say about us, but our conduct that they observe confirms or denies the word going around. Ask yourself what your conduct today confirmed or denied. Your conduct is the most effective way to manage your reputation. Can your reputation open doors as Ruth’s reputation did? Can yours open doors as this one did?

  • The Weak Will Win Don’t Provoke Them!

    God speaks to us to move on in many ways. Circumstances may force us to move and after prayer and all attempts, that becomes the only thing to do. By circumstances, God makes it clear that we must move on. Sometimes God says move on by opportunities that come. Irresistible opportunities that after all assessments are good can be God’s voice to move. Sometimes God says move by killing our interest and appetite of where we are until our only peace is in moving. Whichever way God speaks, once you verify without doubt, just move on!

  • God Knows But Do The People Know?

    God knows it’s a clean relationship, but when you are found in compromising places frequently and always together, what would the people know? God knows but what do the people know? God knows your position on that matter, but when you remain silent in the committee meeting, what would the people know? God knows but what do the people know? God knows you do not discriminate, but when discrimination happens in your presence and you have authority to change things but you do not, what would the people know? God knows but what do the people know?

  • Face-to-face is Better Than Media Interaction

    Thank you, God, for your message. Save us from addiction to phones, laptops, tablets, ipads, and other gadgets. Help us to put them away when physically interacting. Remind us and help us to allocate more time to face-to-face interactions. Where we are completely stranded, step in and save us from the negative effects of such situations where we rely too much on the media. Grant us the complete joy of interaction, in Jesus’ name, Amen!

  • The Claim and The Walk

    How are your claim and your walk at your workplace? How are your claim and your walk in your relationships? Do you claim abstinence and practice fornication and adultery? Do you claim the love of wife and submission to husband then practice hostility? How are your claim and your walk in your neighborhood? How are your claim and walk when you are offended?