Is that sex official? Is that overtime and use of personal leave days and resources official? Is it covered by law so that you are officially recognized and compensated or it is in the silly hope that the big boss will magically give you official status at the end? To avoid pain make it official and you will get official treatment that includes adequate compensation. To get official treatment, make sure what you are doing is official!
What has the heartbreak revealed about you? What has lack of money said about you? What has the diagnosis revealed about your trust in God? What has job loss made clear about your relationship with God? What has the coming serious exam and the tempting need to study on Sabbath tell about your faith in God?
No one should know what can be misunderstood and interfered with. No one should know what would make us be misunderstood. No one should know that a woman was here!
When you cry again, He will save you again,… This is not the first time you are suffering in relationships…You made a poor financial decision and you cried then God saved you…Your laziness or bad attitude or too much talking has put you in trouble before. You suffered and cried to God for help. Now you are in trouble again. It is okay to cry again!
If your life is threatened in a relationship, get out of that relationship and move to safety, sometimes extreme action is the best action. If your child is getting into bad and potentially addictive habits in this school, do not delay, get the child out of that school to even an inferior school but save the child from addiction. Sometimes extreme action is the best action.
There is a relationship breaking somewhere so that a partner is available for you in the next few weeks. There is a disagreement in a secret relationship that you know nothing about but will stabilize your marriage. There is someone mistreating a customer somewhere who will be your best business deal out of that stress. Somewhere unknown to us, God has landed to save us!
Fornication, adultery, and all illicit sex begin as conversations. If you can talk about it, you are halfway into the sexual act. The best way, the safest way is to keep off that conversation. Avoid that conversation! That fight that caused injury began as a conversation. Some conversations tempt us to speak negatively about others then they are informed of what we said, what follows is heartache and broken relationships.
Love is important and sensible where there is friendship. “It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages.” – Friedrich Nietzsche. Many single people suddenly realize it is time to marry or get married. Then they venture to go and search for the perfect partner, the right man or woman. Unfortunately for them, they find this person and end up in marriage. Several weeks or months later, they discover the person is right and they have chosen to be in love, but they are not friends!
What do you have in common in that social media group? What do you have in common with your pack of friends? What do you have in common with your daily companions? What do you have in common with your lover? Truth is the best thing to have in common. Is this what we have in common?