You can’t entertain your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend and claim to be neutral and only act humanely. Entertaining means you still love them. Entertaining means you are not fully committed to your current spouse. If you entertain you can’t be neutral!
If in your marriage you talk of my money and your money, it should be worrying. If in your marriage you can’t discuss money issues because you don’t want to be corrected you should worry. Love requires that be willing to give your life for your spouse. Therefore, money would be a very small matter if you can give life.
God hates haters. Scriptural records show that God acts ruthlessly against haters. Egyptians hated Israelites and God punished them painfully. Haman hated Mordechai and God caused him to forcefully celebrate Mordecai and die in his place.
Learn to forget offenses. Don’t sweat the small stuff. Do not report to your relatives everything that happens in your house, it will break your house. Your relatives will use your reports to break your house. Be considerate. Be tactful. Act intelligently towards marriage. Husbands, if you cant get it forget it!
If you are not married, don’t act married, act unmarried and enjoy that section of life. It is wrong, sinful, and eventually heartbreaking if the married act single, and the single act married. Acting married yet you are still dating is not a sign of deep love but deep confusion.
It is within my personal space to decide who is my friend. Don’t force any friend on me. It is on this basis that forced marriages are abhorrent. They defile personal space.
There is a limit to what we put up within a toxic environment and relationship, or else we will suffer a mental breakdown. There is a limit to attempts we make to salvage a business, or else we will sink in trouble never to rise. There is a limit even after forgiveness. There is a limit!
Do these characteristics define your fiancee, friends, colleagues, business partners, fellow worshippers, Social media group friends, etc.? Do these words describe the people who you listen to, read from, and follow on social media? The Bible gives you free divine advice. Have nothing to do with such people!
f our lifestyle doesn’t match our profession of faith, we will never win anyone to Christ. Conduct is a critical aspect of Christian life. May God grant us His Spirit to mould our conduct and guide us, in Jesus’ name, Amen!